God does well, moreover, that he doesn’t give us everything as we wish, for otherwise we’d want to have everything on our own terms.
That our Lord God is the same in life and death I have often experienced. If our prayer is earnest it will be heard, even if not as and when we wish. This must be so or our faith is vain. Consequently it’s difficult to pray. I know well what a prayer requires of me. — Martin Luther
Luther: On the Difficulty of Prayer